HELLOOOOOO! 👋🏼 It’s been a minute! In honor of World Autism Awareness Month 💙🧩 (and since it’s been more than a year since my last post), here are some updates!
- We’ve moved and are now in the Tampa area. We’ve been here for 15 months now. We are liking this new area since it seems more suburban/family friendly. Dominic and Julian have adjusted quite well! I’m still getting used to life after the move, mostly living without family close by. 😄 Thankfully, we’ve fallen into a good routine and have found our new home church. Our boys have befriended the kids from church and now absolutely love them! We are also expecting BABY BOY #3 this July! 🤰🏻💙 Dominic and Julian are very excited to have a baby brother coming soon.
- School: When we moved, Dominic was still finishing up the last half of Pre-K ESE. He was enrolled in our zoned public elementary school that had a high rating, and thankfully, had an ESE program. The program was “blended” (both typical kids and ESE kids) and I really like that for Dominic. By the end of the school year, he was already ahead of his peers academically, PTL! 🙌🏼 He graduated VPK from that school with flying colors!
- Gardiner Scholarship: In early 2018, I applied for the Gardiner Scholarship for Dominic. It is a scholarship for special needs students, and the money awarded can go towards private school or homeschooling fees/tuition, therapies, extracurricular activities, and homeschool supplies. We found out in June 2018 that he was fully awarded, and that was when we decided to homeschool Dominic for the 2018-2019 school year – his Kindergarten year. We were awarded again for the upcoming school year (2019-2020), PTL! 🙌🏼
- Homeschooling: It is now April 2019, and we are at the tail-end of our first year of homeschooling! He started out as a Kindergartner with a Kindergarten-level curriculum, but he’s pretty advanced and we’ll be finishing up a 1st grade curriculum by the end of May. We are also in Classical Conversations and we are enjoying it! I am anticipating continuing homeschooling during the summer months before the baby comes, which allows us to be ahead of schedule. Once the baby comes, I’ll slow down the pace so we can enjoy the new baby and get settled into our new routine.
- ABA therapy – we were fortunate enough to find an ABA provider soon after we moved. We didn’t have to be on a waitlist and we are having sessions at home. So far, so good. The main issue we see presently is social-emotional regulation. Typical kids around his age go through a stage where they have a hard time making mistakes and losing at games. For autistic kids, the emotions are more amplified. Such is the case with Dominic. We are finding that he gets reeeeally anxious (almost like clinical anxiety). I was told that we can find a pediatric therapist who specializes in anxiety issues, but for now we will just work on it at home at ABA. I’ve observed that his case is not so severe to warrant another therapist treating him. We are also working on sharing and incorporating Julian in the sessions. So far, we have in-home ABA sessions about 8 hours a week (4 days a week).
- OT – Dominic is doing great at OT! He has it once a week at a center for 30 minutes. They are working on developing upper body strength, shoe tying, playing board games, and social-emotional regulation.
- Speech – he also has this once a week for 40 minutes, and they are currently working on making inferences.
Other extracurricular activities (By God’s grace, and thanks to the scholarship, we are able to enroll Dominic in these activities):
- Gymnastics and Taekwondo – Both are great sources for “Physical Education,” as well as an environment for Dominic to practice socialization, compliance towards other adults, and social-emotional regulation. The first 3-4 months of Gymnastics and Taekwondo were rough. When the task was physically hard for him, whenever he would make mistakes, and whenever he would lose at relay games, he would break down (crying, disengaged, talking back to his teachers, etc.) This is part of the anxiety issues/social-emotional regulation we’re working on with him. It’s slowly getting better, but still a work in progress.
- Piano lessons – We found a local piano teacher who specifically teaches kids with special needs, which is great because she also has ABA certification. Dominic is doing great and has already mastered “Happy Birthday” and “Jingle Bells” on the piano. 😄
- Tinkergarten – Both Dominic and Julian were enrolled in the Fall and Winter sessions of Tinkergarten these past few months. We were able to explore the outdoors and learn more about nature while also engaging with peers. The boys had a blast!
- Swim – Dominic as Julian will be starting private lessons at a local swim school this month! They both love the water. Hopefully, Dominic will be more compliant this time around, lol. 😆
- Summer camp – I’m currently looking at summer camp options for Dominic. We’ve narrowed it down to one camp, which would have Dominic attending camp 5 days a week for the whole day for 6 weeks. Honestly, I’m looking forward to some alone time during the week before the baby comes! 😄
Please pray for us as we prepare for our newest addition to the family – that it wouldn’t be a difficult transition for the boys. Please also pray for Dominic’s anxiety issues.
Thank you for your prayers, and for being a part of this journey with me!
Elizabeth